Questions to ask at the first family meeting

The first meeting between two families sets the tone for everything that follows. A little preparation helps everyone relax and have a meaningful conversation instead of polite small talk.

Questions for the families

• What traditions and festivals are important in your home?
• Where does the family live, and what are the plans after marriage?
• How involved would you like to be in the couple’s day-to-day life?
• What are your expectations around the wedding customs?

Questions for the couple

• What do you enjoy doing in your free time?
• How do you see your career over the next few years?
• Would you prefer to live with family or independently?
• What matters most to you in a life partner?

Keep it relaxed

There is no need to decide everything in one meeting. Take time to reflect, speak again if both sides are interested, and let the relationship between the families grow naturally.